You are broken up, you are no longer obligated to make him feel good about anything and are free to do what you want

You’re incredibly emotionally immature… you need to push yourself out of your comfort zone and pause to think before lashing out at people. Either that or you have an emotional disorder of some sort. The answer to both is talking to a psychologist

Quit avoiding the therapy, grow the hell up and take responsibility for your issues, it’s going to be uncomfortable, that’s part of the process. If you really care about him you will go to the therapy and not just walk out the second it’s uncomfortable

That’s the biggest red flag of all honesty, I put open communication at the top of my list of things I need in a relationship so someone just refusing to talk about an issue that affects us both is a no go to me personally

Sounds like she probably has a lot of anxiety about meeting your friends. Talk to her about it, be direct and ask what’s up/

Same concept for hookups lol you obviously are attractive enough that he enjoys sex with you

Just because he’s most attracted to a certain type doesn’t mean he doesn’t find other women attractive too.

I love myself a beautiful redhead but I won’t turn away a gorgeous brunette because of it lol. So basically we’re capable of liking multiple things he obviously is into you too if he’s with you