Nani65

Nani65 t1_j6iz2d0 wrote on January 30, 2023 at 5:51 PM

Reply to I told my GF (30F) I (31M) don't want to go to her brother's wedding because it isn't CF and I think (?) we may have just broken up because of it? by ThrowRA_MJSA

Holy buckets, OP. Get over yourself. Your friends wedding is not about you. You are being a shitty friend.

Nani65 t1_j2a8qgp wrote on December 30, 2022 at 7:45 PM

Reply to [35M][30M], My brother won’t grow up. I am beyond frustrated with trying to figure out how to help him. by elektrofone

Let go of this fight, OP. You are part of the problem. As heartbreaking as it is, you can't fix him.

You might do some reading on codependency and growing up in a codependent family. Learning about loving detatchment is the best thing you can do.

I'm sorry, OP. It's clear that you love your brother very much.