NatureOfYourReality

NatureOfYourReality t1_iuem51c wrote

  1. I don’t care a ton who wishes me a happy birthday
  2. If someone is only wishing me a happy birthday because my wife reminded them, that wouldn’t be meaningful
  3. If all of my friends, family, acquaintances are reminded each year, I will never know which ones actually cared enough about me to remember

I get how it can be a kind thing to do, but as someone who values more genuine relationships, I would not be a fan.

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