Nicapika503
Nicapika503 t1_iyd9aiu wrote
Reply to comment by colderbrother in My girlfriend went and hung out with her ex, it was to say goodbye and tell him that we were together, but im still super uncomfortable about it, but i dont want to be by [deleted]
I think it is healthy and great that you are feeling those things because it would be strange if you were into this girl and didn't feel upset about it.
So embrace those feelings in a way that you understand these are normal feelings when you have interest in a partner. As long as she is not visiting the fella any longer you can definitely move past this. You can definitely have boundaries that you are comfortable with moving forward and it sounds like you two have already figured that out.
Say in the future she meets up with him again that would be a deal breaker in my mind because she knows you are uncomfortable with that. If she is a partner worth your time and cares for you she will not put you in those positions moving forward.
Nicapika503 t1_iyddon2 wrote
Reply to comment by colderbrother in My girlfriend went and hung out with her ex, it was to say goodbye and tell him that we were together, but im still super uncomfortable about it, but i dont want to be by [deleted]
Know that your feelings are valid. It is how you move forward acknowledging those feelings and learning to trust your partner by their actions that will help you. Wish you the best!