Wild. Thanks for the info… My father worked in this building as a young attorney in the 80’s

This is ridiculous- you have clearly communicated your needs to her and she refuses to listen. The ex husband’s behavior alone would be enough for me to move on: how come she respects his needs and not yours?

Dude you’re only 42, if you’re going to date someone with the maturity level of a 20-something, you might as well get the perks that come with it.