NotTheGreenestThumb t1_j6oyrss wrote

I think a good place to start would be to read a lot of labels.

Look at the labels on the cleaners. Dish detergent for hand washing will say that's what it's for and the stuff for the dish WASHER will say that's what it's for. Sometimes the pictures on the labels will be a good clue.

Getting windows clean can be difficult, and how to deal with water spots would depend on what type of surface they're on.

If you're in the USA and you're over 18, and feel you're being held back, there are agencies for helping you gain more independence without interfering with your family a lot.