Ok_Breakfast9531 t1_j2cex6l wrote on December 31, 2022 at 5:13 AM Reply to [43 F] [40M] Would you take back someone who cheated? by GardenGnome4551232 He says he will put in the work. What’s he done so far? Read recovery materials? Learned about how to rebuild trust? Seeing her at work occasionally isn’t enough. He needs to be no contact. Do you feel safe knowing she’s there? If he’s going to blame alcohol, what’s he doing about that? Only drinking with you present? AA? Something? His words mean nothing. Watch his actions. His consistent actions over time will help rebuild trust. Nothing else. Permalink 1
Ok_Breakfast9531 t1_j2cex6l wrote
Reply to [43 F] [40M] Would you take back someone who cheated? by GardenGnome4551232
He says he will put in the work. What’s he done so far? Read recovery materials? Learned about how to rebuild trust?
Seeing her at work occasionally isn’t enough. He needs to be no contact. Do you feel safe knowing she’s there?
If he’s going to blame alcohol, what’s he doing about that? Only drinking with you present? AA? Something?
His words mean nothing. Watch his actions. His consistent actions over time will help rebuild trust. Nothing else.