It never made sense to me. You re an on demand service, therefore your users choose you because you can decide what to watch and when, so what s the point in watching random stuff?

We did that already, couldnt we try and defend ourselves from soneone attacking with a stick?

Yeah, this should be the post title!

You re not lingering in someone s life if he/she is not honest with you about how he/she feels, you re just being deceived.

Totally agree. I fell like a moron in a one sided relationship with a egotistical spoiled woman child.

She decided she had to have me, did all she could to achieve her result, told me she loved me after 2 weeks and that i was the man of her life within a month.

The first time i sat her down to discuss sonething that was worrying me about her behaviour (she was forcing my hand in the direction of spending time with her family without asking me directly), she refused any discussion, refused to acknowledge my feelings and needs.

I just wanted to know if a strong tie between her family and us as a couple was something she neeeded because I come from a very indipendent family and it would have been "weird" for me. Never said I was against it but I was not ok with her sneakily beinging me in that direction.

After having said these things she just literally refused any discussion, told me i was insensitive and false, mean and literally left me there and gave me the silence treatment without even being decent enough to say we re through.

After that reconciliation, because I caved and accepted that she was not doing at all what I claimed, said i m sorry and so it was like nothing happened. Again she started lovebombing, and again, sure enough, after a while started sneakily pushing her own agenda with me, which made me sit her down to get insight and clarification, which again resulted in her losing interest, her stop communicating, and some times even in her actively boycotting our relationship by doing things she knows for sure would make me un happy about being with her.

Basically they are only able to love someone who is the exact same as them in any sense.