I’m younger than OP so I don’t know what you’re referring to. No one said you can’t be succesfull while living with your parents. I had to when I became ill. OP specifically asked in his title how to fix your life while unemployed and living with family? After reading the title this was my initial anwser and after reading the post it stayed the same. There is no reason why OP can’t get a job and move out of his parents house. Is it going to be a great career where he feels super valued with grand pay where he can afford himself a beautifull home, no probably not. OP needs to wake up and realise this is a reality for most people and he isn’t special. He got handed pretty good cards in life to make it, but he didn’t, that’s ok, shit happens. But he is still young and he can still do well for himself if he puts his mind and energy to it. But he’s gotta do it himself. I’m not going to feel sorry for him, as I know many people who didn’t get the same opportunities and still made the best of it, as well as people still working jobs while being physically ill, including myself. My family doesn’t hate me and OP’s family clearly doesn’t either so I don’t know what that comment is about.

Stop blaming everything and everyone else for your mistakes. Get a job and move out, you’re not a child anymore.