THIS!! Mother of 3. Last one almost killed me, and yet 6 years later I’m begging my hubby for number 4! I remember how awful it all was. I spent the first 3 days after my c-section in so much pain I couldn’t move. Don’t get me wrong, if hurt NOT to move, but it hurt MORE to move so much as my arm. And because I’m American and every doctor just assumes you’re lying about pain, even after having your stomach sliced open down to your womb and your insides on your outsides a while. It was some of the worst pain of my life and it took me over 6 weeks to heal enough the pain didn’t spike hard enough to make me gasp and practice my breathing if I moved wrong.
But hormones. And I love all kids so much. I’ll heal, but if hubby wants the next one to be the last one he should ask me if I want another one while they’re in there and at that point I’d absolutely consent to a hysterectomy.
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THIS!! Mother of 3. Last one almost killed me, and yet 6 years later I’m begging my hubby for number 4! I remember how awful it all was. I spent the first 3 days after my c-section in so much pain I couldn’t move. Don’t get me wrong, if hurt NOT to move, but it hurt MORE to move so much as my arm. And because I’m American and every doctor just assumes you’re lying about pain, even after having your stomach sliced open down to your womb and your insides on your outsides a while. It was some of the worst pain of my life and it took me over 6 weeks to heal enough the pain didn’t spike hard enough to make me gasp and practice my breathing if I moved wrong.
But hormones. And I love all kids so much. I’ll heal, but if hubby wants the next one to be the last one he should ask me if I want another one while they’re in there and at that point I’d absolutely consent to a hysterectomy.