Your friends sound like the real red flag here. I am 30 and have no social media either. I consciously quit facebook back in the day and have never picked up something new since then, except reddit (whatsapp aint no social media either).

I think its sad how much your friends seem to already be consumed by their social media addiction or whatever that they can't even imagine a life without it or anyone else living without it.

TBH it would only be a PLUS for me if the woman I date has no social media. It would just show me that our opinions on the matter are aligned, because social media is like poison to the brain.

this is a pretty sexist and sadly also braindead statement. Guys don't do things to be a good person? Women have intuition about attraction, but men don't? Do you think every man in this world is oblivious and don't realise when a woman is interested in them?

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> It is good your bf doesn't seem to care but if he loved you he would ask questions at least.

You should not frequent this subreddit any longer with quotes like that.. geez.

Tells the whole story how 95% of your post is about this new guy and not even about your title. Seems like you are fiddling around with fire there.

Your boyfriend actually should be concerned xD