Phighters t1_j4qsout wrote

Recycle Bin lives on the taskbar in MacOS. Lots of weird things about macs, but I think this is one of the better ones. Whatever you have open you can drag straight to the trash without having to minimize windows to get see it (of course, right click-delete works just as well, but whatever).


Phighters t1_iy68rv1 wrote

Don't email HR, email him, or better yet, call him. He seemed to take it in stride, but even so the gesture will go a long way.


If you knew he was gay but didn't know his name (suggesting you two didn't have some intimate relationship where he would disclose that to you), then you probably didn't out him.


Phighters t1_ixfhyh1 wrote

None of that matters. If someone stole your Acura TLX and replaced it with a Honda accord, you don’t get to wash your hands of it just because you got most of the value back and they are functionally identical with the same performance.

I don’t disagree with anything you said tech-wise, but swap it out to a similar situation, and it no longer feels right.