I went through something similar in the past she would always hang the threat of leaving when ever an argument didn't go her way.
You don't know how much damage you do to the person who loves you the anxiety it puts on them apart from feeling abandoned.
now that it happened to you it feels terrible doesn't it? arguments should not be the reason you leave every time.
If he loves you then give him time, also try and slowly fix the issue. no one wants to be in a relationship where the person can easily pack and leave every time.
He is at his sisters house not at a club or meeting some random woman. let him stay as long as he wants. my wife had a similar problem my brother and I are of similar age 1 year apart his house is about half a mile from mine so like a kid I ride a bike and stop by.
I drink and play pool or we play video games like kids we don't do it everyday, but it is often 1-2 times a week.
her problem was me coming home 1-2am which to me doesn't matter all that much im not doing anything bad. specifically since I do spend a lot of my time with her and even when we are both home she makes herself busy doing something she likes which is talking on the phone with her friends or playing a game which leaves no space for me to come an interrupt her it would probably bother her at the time.
otherwise we spend a lot of time together. she let the argument go since everyone told her it shouldn't be a big deal her friends know me and know I am not the type to go messing around.
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Reply to My fiancé (27m) is cold and distant after a fight with me (25f) and it’s causing me so much anxiety. How can I fix this by Ok-Independence-3193
I went through something similar in the past she would always hang the threat of leaving when ever an argument didn't go her way.
You don't know how much damage you do to the person who loves you the anxiety it puts on them apart from feeling abandoned.
now that it happened to you it feels terrible doesn't it? arguments should not be the reason you leave every time.
If he loves you then give him time, also try and slowly fix the issue. no one wants to be in a relationship where the person can easily pack and leave every time.
He is at his sisters house not at a club or meeting some random woman. let him stay as long as he wants. my wife had a similar problem my brother and I are of similar age 1 year apart his house is about half a mile from mine so like a kid I ride a bike and stop by.
I drink and play pool or we play video games like kids we don't do it everyday, but it is often 1-2 times a week.
her problem was me coming home 1-2am which to me doesn't matter all that much im not doing anything bad. specifically since I do spend a lot of my time with her and even when we are both home she makes herself busy doing something she likes which is talking on the phone with her friends or playing a game which leaves no space for me to come an interrupt her it would probably bother her at the time.
otherwise we spend a lot of time together. she let the argument go since everyone told her it shouldn't be a big deal her friends know me and know I am not the type to go messing around.