Yeah just disappear from both your full time jobs and the family the depends on you. Work on yourself (most of which would probably be fixed by having a larger salary) and return to no jobs and a destitute and rightly pissed off family.

Been a photographer since my early adulthood. Everyone in the family wanted, for years, for me to bring my camera to events. Now I have lovely pictures of every family event for a decade plus, except I'm in basically none of them. At least I've got something, but I'd love more pictures of me and my dad to remember him by.