I see what you’re saying. The post kinda resonated with me on this particular situation with my friend so I commented to vent really. I lm sure there’s things I do now that might come off as my nose in the air but that’s never my intent and I’m trying really hard to be cognizant of how me being proud of my progress might come off to other ppl.

Thank you for your insight, I agree with you. I’ve been through so much with her which makes it hard to step back sometimes. I want things to go back to how they were but I know they won’t bc I’ve grown and make so much progress with my self and intend to continue. We’re just growing apart and it hurts tremendously.

In my case I feel like she does know sometimes but doesn’t care bc she needs to make herself feel better. I try to make space so she can work things out and it helps sometimes but I feel like we end up in a cycle

Why would ppl do this. I’m losing a really good friend bc of this. She’s gotten really toxic and I feel really alone