I don't even consider the ability to physically change yourself in this way to be honest. Especially not in this context. As you would no doubt agree, if someone is already leaving someone over this they have clearly decided not to surgically alter themselves. Yet it appears people cannot abide their actions being cast in a negative light, nor can they seem to stomach that something they do for their own good may be seen poorly. These actions do reflect poorly on the character of those performing them, but yes, they are still perfectly fine to do. My point was entirely missed but this ain't a sub for opinions, so it's since be deleted and retracted.

I'm sorry, that as very rude. Allow me to rephrase.

I completely agree with you, and always have. I never said you should stay with these people. If you are truly unhappy, always leave. There are few reasons good enough to stay with someone you are superficially unhappy with. My argument stems from a discussion I had with my wife and best friend. Often time, women brush off leaving a man for another man just because he has a larger penis as play and as if it does not hurt the man being left, or they callously believe it does not matter if they hurt his feelings. Yet simultaneously, it appears that when a man leaves a woman because the woman has larger beasts, it's a crime and they can never believe someone would do this. My point was that both superficial reasons for leaving someone are awful, not that it should not be done. It seems many are unable to separate something being shitty and something being wrong. Just because it's awful doesn't make it wrong. Many seem to want to see everything they do in a positive light and that is just not the case here.

Then you definitely do not show your age with your wisdom or reading comprehension.

Exactly! I usually don't even consider changing yourself surgically to be with someone, because if they're leaving you over this than you've clearly already decided not to change these things about yourself and they are being incredibly shallow and hurting that persons feelings. But alas, oh well! You'll both find better people. I had just never heard someone treat leaving a woman for her boob size the same as leaving a man for the size of his dick, and the realization hit me while I was on reddit.

Yep! Seems when you say something is bad, most assume you're saying not to do it at all. Even though I never said this!

Exactly! It's incredibly hurtful to the person being dumped for it. I've been left for the same reason! Tmi but we're about the same lol. What nobody seems to get is that while it's a shitty thing to do, it's also perfectly fine because that person isn't happy. Roasting them however, is not okay in the slightest. That's just a fucked up thing to do.

Your last two sentences: exactly! Thank you for being literally the first one to get it!

I assume they must be young because they don't seem to understand that something can be both bad and perfectly fine to do. Shitty/wrong are not mutually exclusive when it comes to dumping someone. There is no wrong reason to dump someone, but there are terrible reasons to do it. I've said it too many times throughout this thread so I'm not saying it again.

Oh I completely accept it, and I've dumped both men and women for these reasons and worse. We can be as superficial as we want and I have been many times. I don't think many of the people commenting here understand that something can be terrible but still be fine. I didn't say "don't dump someone for having small tits" I said "hey dumping someone for this thing is equally as shitty as this thing", because I don't think most people realize it. You say something is bad, and everyone assumes you're saying not to do it.

Man it's like you read the entire comment and didn't actually comprehend any of it, lol. Do I have that right?

Never miss cock day.

So anybody should have to alter themselves surgically to be with someone? Got it.

Not everyone wants/likes boob jobs, commenter. Same with fake dicks. You shouldn't have to change yourself surgically to be with someone.

You must be very young.

Of course there are shitty reasons to end a relationship. I don't think you realize that something can be equally shitty and perfectly fine to do. Not everything we do is going to be sunshine and roses, but our own personal happiness is more important than anyone else's. So yes, you can dump someone for any reason, but that doesn't make it not shitty. Just like if you're married to someone for 20 years and they are involved in an accident that covers their entire face in burns, rendering them hideous. If you then leave them because you do not find them attractive anymore due to burns they cannot control, that is an incredibly shitty thing to do, but yes you can still do it if you aren't happy with an ugly partner.

You don't just get to shrug off any and all guilt because "muh happiness". If you're gonna be that shallow and dump someone for superficial reasons, then accept that it's shitty and move on.

Nah. I've never heard of guys wanting a girl "with a smaller pussy". A tighter one, sure. But that can be achieved with exercise. You can't grow a bigger dick in the gym.

I don't know why you decided to say this