RandChick
RandChick t1_jaetcwd wrote
Reply to Am I [27F] experiencing gaslighting by her [38F] or am I just incredibly misinformed? by ThrowRAplayedwith
She probably thought you were crazy because nothing you said made any sense nor has any true basis in reality.
RandChick t1_jaerljg wrote
Just celebrate before she leaves.
That twin connection is powerful and won't be broken by any arguments.
They want to focus on turning 21 together as sisters.
RandChick t1_iyaeob7 wrote
Reply to Retirement health benefits nightmare by Wishyouamerry
Did you go to your union?
RandChick t1_iy63ora wrote
Reply to Do you ever regret going back and watching favorite movies from your past? by modernmartialartist
I don't regret it. I prefer to face the truth. I have higher standards for story structure, development, and characterization now.
"Lost Boys" and "Young Guns" have held up well , but "When Harry Met Sally" did not. I was shocked. It's very mediocre and boring to me now. I used to actually think that was a good movie.
RandChick t1_iy0o4ml wrote
- I became a minimalist. I wanted to have fewer things but at high quality that would last.
- I set aside money in my budget (after savings and essentials) for a treat each month. If what I want costs more than my monthly allotment, I just rollover treat money until I have enough to get what I want, whether it's jewelry, electronics, tools, clothes, whatever. It a great feeling to treat myself to items that make my life enjoyable and I like sacrificing and waiting until I have accumulated enough play money for it.
RandChick t1_ixv5tdd wrote
Reply to [Homemade] Cheeseball by DanasPaperFlowers
This is the cutest thing. And the pretzel tail is perfect.
RandChick t1_jaexsd0 wrote
Reply to I can't keep up with my partner financially and it's extremely stressful. Advice needed. (M28, F26) by Oatmealtuesdays
It doesn't make sense for you to turn down his offer to pay for you.
Nor should you try to keep up with anyone. You should live within your budget.
I don't understand your way of thinking at all.