It's called surrogacy you really are wording it oddly tho, there's a chance the surrogate might not want you around when she is pregnant so you may not be able to see her with your baby or you can just look around till you find someone who's ok with that.
Defo think about how this will impact your kids life though, especially imagining you get a little girl no doubt you will be a good father but she will need some female influence somewhere, is there anyone close to you who can provide that? A female friend, sister, cousin, or even your mother?
Lastly, make sure you're ready, midnight wake up screams, early days feeding (obviously you can't breastfeed), sick days, and make sure you get in time to properly bond with your child!
Maybe don't give up hope on having a partner, raising children alone is hard, if i may ask, is there a reason you feel nobody would ever like you that way?
Reaper1704 t1_iyf2j46 wrote
Reply to (M24) paying a woman to carry my babies by throwaway3929295930
It's called surrogacy you really are wording it oddly tho, there's a chance the surrogate might not want you around when she is pregnant so you may not be able to see her with your baby or you can just look around till you find someone who's ok with that.
Defo think about how this will impact your kids life though, especially imagining you get a little girl no doubt you will be a good father but she will need some female influence somewhere, is there anyone close to you who can provide that? A female friend, sister, cousin, or even your mother?
Lastly, make sure you're ready, midnight wake up screams, early days feeding (obviously you can't breastfeed), sick days, and make sure you get in time to properly bond with your child!
Maybe don't give up hope on having a partner, raising children alone is hard, if i may ask, is there a reason you feel nobody would ever like you that way?