Redd_81
Redd_81 t1_jegayo8 wrote
Reply to I (M19) broke up with my gf (F18) the same day she kisses a guy I have been uncomfortable with out entire relationship. Now we want each other back. by AnyCloud9230
Here's the thing, she's shown you when she tells you 'not to worry' about a guy, you SHOULD worry...
If you get back together, there is always going to be a guy she is telling you 'not to worry about.'
Redd_81 t1_jeavkl7 wrote
Reply to My (25M) girlfriend (24F) jokes about previous sexual encounters which make me feel disrespected by [deleted]
I mean she is right, you can't stop her from posting whatever she wants.
But you can decide what behaviour by your partner is acceptable to you. If they aren't conducting themselves in a way you find appropriate (even after letting them know you are uncomfortable), then you need to decide if it is a dealbreaker or not.
Redd_81 t1_j6mnitb wrote
Reply to My (21m) girlfriend (20f) cheated on me. by [deleted]
There will be a point, it may be 1 year... 5 years....10 years.... from now when you will look back to this moment and ask yourself 'Why the fuck did I take her back?'
Hopefully, it will be before kids, marriage, and a mortgage are in the mix. But who knows...
Redd_81 t1_iyf9oag wrote
Ah yes, the 'friend' she met on Tinder... 🙄
Redd_81 t1_iyekm8g wrote
Maybe you can avoid Noah sabotaging your marriage by being honest with your husband.
You know, that thing you SHOULD'VE been doing right from the start...
Redd_81 t1_jegy5vc wrote
Reply to comment by AnyCloud9230 in I (M19) broke up with my gf (F18) the same day she kisses a guy I have been uncomfortable with out entire relationship. Now we want each other back. by AnyCloud9230
Does that sound like a healthy relationship dynamic?