Rudy_Trollbert
Rudy_Trollbert t1_jeeu87a wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA987654321779 in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
Sorry hon. You're more than likely a FWB type of thing too.
Rudy_Trollbert t1_jeeu4qj wrote
Reply to My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
Coming from a mam who was with a woman exactly hiw tou are describing. Run.
The dude is a player and you just don't want to see it.
Rudy_Trollbert t1_jeetn93 wrote
Reply to I (23F) feel like a horrible person because I am not sure I can continue supporting boyfriend (26M) with his addiction problems. by Tired_penguin9678
Stop focusing on him and focus on yourself.
What do you want for you, your future and your future kids?
It is okay to be selfish, especially when it comes to the health of your future.
I know it is easier said than done, but leave. Your future self will thank you for it.
Rudy_Trollbert t1_jeet492 wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in My[23F] boyfriend [25M] is not so great in bed and I fear I will die not knowing what good sex is. by [deleted]
Lol, 35M here who stayed in a marriage for 10 years where we had sex a total of 6 times, I can confirm this. Just get out of it.
Rudy_Trollbert t1_jeerqp0 wrote
Dude. Just leave. It won't get better.
She is either manipulating you, has an issue that she is unwilling to fix herself or she is cheating on you.
None of those are worth sticking around for.
You'll find a woman who will be emotionally mature and not do any of those things and it'll be worth it, I promise.
Rudy_Trollbert t1_jeeubn6 wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA987654321779 in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
You want that? You want to be with a person who is using another person?