Then walk away get a lawyer draw up papers with him giving up parental rights. If he doesn't agree then get him on child support. He can't have it both ways. Get a paternity test once the baby is born to prove in court if you have to that it is his make your life with out him it obvious he has some issues and your baby doesn't deserve that. So do good by your child. Grow up a little and except you decided to be a parent. If not it isn't too late to put the baby up for adoption if you know for certain you can not give that child a stable healthy life. Good luck

Time to walk away. That's not cool and it seems he doesn't respect you in any way.

Well first you shouldn't have to do something you don't like and as for the part where you say you don't know where's it's been....should also apply to the fact you're about to stick it somewhere else too. Listen if that's what's stopping you then use a flavored condom for head. And regular condom for penetration. Come on kids. But like I said you should have to give head if you don't like it. There's other kinds of foreplay which is very important in any type of sexual relationship, meaning casual or relationship.