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Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyf6qsm wrote
Reply to comment by Witch_on_a_moped in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Ok, great, I'm taking notes, thank you!
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyezjhj wrote
Reply to comment by MckittenMan in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Not exactly first but I think second or third maybe. Although that's not even important, he obviously didn't explore his sexualty that much.
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyez885 wrote
Reply to comment by TyphoonCane in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Ok, I'll try. I'm just concerned that he'll do things just to please me and not really enjoy them himself :(
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyeytew wrote
Reply to comment by CermaitLaphroaig in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Thank you, everything you said is really on point! The only part I'm fearing is things staying this way. I have the patiance and would love to teach him new stuff.
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyewwpv wrote
Reply to comment by Witch_on_a_moped in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Ooh you're right there... I did try to talk but didn't really try to ask! ...so here's a stupid question... what do I ask him? 😅
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyewlm9 wrote
Reply to comment by Guilty_Hunter9304 in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Thanks again, it really puts my mind to ease!
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyew2ik wrote
Reply to comment by senioroldguy in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Can you recomend some?
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyevnzi wrote
Reply to comment by Witch_on_a_moped in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
That's exactly what I did! He liked it, but no changes from him 😅
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyevc6u wrote
Reply to comment by Guilty_Hunter9304 in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Yes, I don't want to make him uncomfortable, but we're both pretty mature and reasonable people, so I want to give him a little push. Everything I tried didn't seem to work so far, and I am scared to cross the line because I really respect him a lot, and it seems that he respects me too.
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyeun21 wrote
Reply to comment by TyphoonCane in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
That's great advice! I don't want to cross his boundaries ever. Little steps are completely fine with me, but everything I tried like communicating it verbally, trying to take the lead, tell him what I would like(which is nothing crazy I promise, I think I told him I would like us to try some other positions than just missionary, like any other) just failed. When we talk about it, he's really interested and enthusiastic, but when it comes to the deed itself, just nothing happens. I would love to hear some new tips on how to make those little steps!
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyetv5g wrote
Reply to comment by Witch_on_a_moped in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
I need magic here, so you(A witch) commenting is really helpful ! 😂💜
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyetlxo wrote
Reply to comment by senioroldguy in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Thank you. We did discuss something like this just with photos... didn't really work :{
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyesyb5 wrote
Reply to comment by MckittenMan in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
I do, but I think his shyness gets the best of him :( We communicate a lot about it, it's just when it comes to it...the same thing happens.
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyesq2e wrote
Reply to comment by Guilty_Hunter9304 in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Thank you, this gives me hope. I did try to communicate before, during, after...he just seems so shy when it comes to it.
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyesj7y wrote
Reply to comment by Witch_on_a_moped in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Tried that one too 😅 he was enjoying it(maybe too much)
Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyes69x wrote
Reply to comment by casualselfhatred in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
Thank you for the comment, I thought that too so I tried that already, didn't work 😓
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Sad_Stuff8265 OP t1_iyf6z3o wrote
Reply to comment by MckittenMan in I need help from both men and women, please! by Sad_Stuff8265
That's a good point, I didn't consider it that way. Thank you so much!