Well there’s a couple reasons, we have a 3 month old and I feel it would be easier to wait as she would be older and I’d be even more financially free. I understand you can be engaged for a while before actually getting married also. Maybe just the idea of actually being engaged scares me.

She has said before that she doesn’t care how big or small it is but I know she would love a nice wedding, I’d just rather give her a ring and be good to go. I’m not very social or big on events like I used to be.