GTFO of there my friend. Aiming for a retroactively open relationship as some form of reciprocity after having your trust repeatedly violated can not end well. I suggest cutting your losses and trying to find someone who will respect your boundaries and be honest with you.
SdoubleYa t1_iyeoajx wrote
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GTFO of there my friend. Aiming for a retroactively open relationship as some form of reciprocity after having your trust repeatedly violated can not end well. I suggest cutting your losses and trying to find someone who will respect your boundaries and be honest with you.