The whole situation is weird. I don't think the issue here is you keeping the photos or videos (as some people are saying), although you should have deleted it, to show respect to your previous partners and to your new partner.
But the fact that he snooped and saw this, sent the videos to himself (for what? That's really fucked up and not normal), and was guilt tripping you for sex are all major red flags.
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The whole situation is weird. I don't think the issue here is you keeping the photos or videos (as some people are saying), although you should have deleted it, to show respect to your previous partners and to your new partner. But the fact that he snooped and saw this, sent the videos to himself (for what? That's really fucked up and not normal), and was guilt tripping you for sex are all major red flags.