I normally don’t ever post here but this resonated with me as I used to feel this way too. The way I get over this is telling myself it’s ok to make mistakes but that’s not how I am anymore and I use that way of thinking and it helps. And all those mistakes have made me into who I am today which I wouldn’t have got here without. Believe it or not mistakes help you grow as a person.
Also don’t put too much stock into what other people think about you, do things that make you happy and be who you want to be. That kind of thinking will help also
SiiK_MaNiiaC t1_ja275tk wrote
Reply to LPT request: Can anyone give me a couple ideas or things to try, that might alleviate some of the guilt and shame I (28F) feel? by magdeedz
I normally don’t ever post here but this resonated with me as I used to feel this way too. The way I get over this is telling myself it’s ok to make mistakes but that’s not how I am anymore and I use that way of thinking and it helps. And all those mistakes have made me into who I am today which I wouldn’t have got here without. Believe it or not mistakes help you grow as a person.
Also don’t put too much stock into what other people think about you, do things that make you happy and be who you want to be. That kind of thinking will help also