Sounds like maybe you're too secure.

You got what you deserve, your boyfriend told you he went to a strip club and DIDN'T enjoy the lap dance, so you told him you want to go to a strip club and get a lap dance. You're weird.

Man you seem to have an answer to everything, reading your comments I am getting a politician vibe from you. Just the way you are responding to questions.

First step to getting help is admitting you have a problem and need help

Indeed, but you still need therapy.

Nobody is disagreeing with you, rape is wrong and punishable. The comments explained that to the guy and many even told him to seek therapy of some sort.

What I am saying, is the way you are talking makes it seems like you aren't in control of your emotions over a post on the internet, would lead me to believe that there are some unresolved issues with you, and that's why you should seek professional help.

Dude fucked up, no defending him. But you, based on your replies, should seek some form of therapy.

Seek help