She basically said she wasn't flirting. She didn't necessarily get defensive but she was just really upset that I said that and she said she never wants that to happen again which puts pressure on me. Maybe I was overreacting but I think the entire conversation was bad when we talked about it. It just made me feel worse because I feel like I can't express my feelings to her.

It was more of an attention thing. I went to talk to her and ask her things and she would effectively ignore me and talk to my friend and laugh and touch his shoulder and stuff.