Sphinx_1985
Sphinx_1985 t1_iuk3od6 wrote
Reply to My (37f) friend (42m) is dating a 25yr (f) old and I don’t know what to think of him. by applepeary
That's more common than one thinks. If a man is capable of dating much younger, he will...and shouldn't be judged for the ability or desire to do so.
I was married to someone 13 years younger than me and it lasted a very long time and was genuine. I spoke very sternly to "friends" that wanted to judge me for it.
Sphinx_1985 t1_iujys0l wrote
How on earth are you committed to someone that would put you through all that?
Time to look inward and evaluate why you would allow this for yourself.
Not trying to be cruel, but you don't demand much value and respect for yourself and this drama she will bring to you is something that you know doesn't make you happy.
It's all in your hands, my friend. You don't have to accept it.
Sphinx_1985 t1_iuk8j1w wrote
Reply to I (23f) met someone but he (25m) is weirdly deflective of my advances by xomissblonde
He was giving as little effort as needed to see you naked, and keep you as an option.
If you were his #1, he would have already driven the 45 to come and hang.