It’s the girl. Both of you might find strength when the next time she’s forcing herself on you two to tell her that her questions and interest in their private lives and personal relationship is unwanted and unappreciated. Your husband can also make the very visible effort to put you between them while he feigns interest in anything other than her while you break it down but make sure he also says he feels the same way or if he leads the confrontation you say you feel the same way and it is being stopped. Not should be, “is”.
Then stare at her while she tries to find words, makes excuses, tries to shift blame or otherwise gaslight the situation but no matter what she says or how she says it, either say nothing more or repeat what you said until she leaves. If she doesn’t, then you both do and make sure to move yourselves closer to the boss or head of HR for the rest of your time.
Stanseas t1_jegyerl wrote
Reply to husband's coworker ( F30) asking my husband why he's so protective of me (f 29) by [deleted]
It’s the girl. Both of you might find strength when the next time she’s forcing herself on you two to tell her that her questions and interest in their private lives and personal relationship is unwanted and unappreciated. Your husband can also make the very visible effort to put you between them while he feigns interest in anything other than her while you break it down but make sure he also says he feels the same way or if he leads the confrontation you say you feel the same way and it is being stopped. Not should be, “is”.
Then stare at her while she tries to find words, makes excuses, tries to shift blame or otherwise gaslight the situation but no matter what she says or how she says it, either say nothing more or repeat what you said until she leaves. If she doesn’t, then you both do and make sure to move yourselves closer to the boss or head of HR for the rest of your time.