StellarManatee
StellarManatee t1_jefpuc9 wrote
Reply to comment by ArrivalIcy9717 in My (25F) boyfriend (28m) is on holiday and adding girls on instagram during nights out by [deleted]
Yeah... even if he hasn't cheated if this is his behaviour on a holiday (befriending "english speakers" but only the hot girls ones) then use this time apart to figure out is this guy worth wasting more time on. In the meantime go take some time to yourself. Rest and pamper yourself. By the time he comes back you'll know whether or not to continue the relationship after he's quite deliberately given you a miserable time while he was gone.
StellarManatee t1_jeflnws wrote
Reply to comment by ArrivalIcy9717 in My (25F) boyfriend (28m) is on holiday and adding girls on instagram during nights out by [deleted]
Tbh I'd be inclined to bring nothing else up with him until he gets back. I wouldn't contact him unless he contacts you. Pull back from this mess.
How long have you been together?
StellarManatee t1_jefhc5c wrote
Reply to comment by ArrivalIcy9717 in My (25F) boyfriend (28m) is on holiday and adding girls on instagram during nights out by [deleted]
Ok first, as you deduced its extremely common to find English speakers in European cities so that's bull. Has he followed any insta accounts of "English-speaking" men? Or is it just hot women?
StellarManatee t1_jefga80 wrote
Reply to comment by ArrivalIcy9717 in My (25F) boyfriend (28m) is on holiday and adding girls on instagram during nights out by [deleted]
Well then something happened with one of these insta girls that changed his attitude. Or he wants something to happen.
StellarManatee t1_jefflsj wrote
Reply to My (25F) boyfriend (28m) is on holiday and adding girls on instagram during nights out by [deleted]
> I trust him to just go out and have fun with friends
I think your trust might have been misplaced.
StellarManatee t1_jaeng8r wrote
Reply to I can't tell if my (f20) boyfriend (m26) thinks I'm not worth the effort, is just cheap, or both. by Legitimate-Line5849
What's the rush? Like you're already arguing the details so why rush things? If the relationship is strong and healthy, marriage can wait a year or two while you save up for a life together.
StellarManatee t1_jefs3sh wrote
Reply to comment by ArrivalIcy9717 in My (25F) boyfriend (28m) is on holiday and adding girls on instagram during nights out by [deleted]
Exactly. Nobody is worth this and if he was a decent man he would never have put you through this. Enjoy the weekend with your friend, have a great time and you'll feel better for it. Good luck.