So you make money too? Does he take away your paychecks or divert the money into his account? I've been threatened too many times to be taken off the accounts..I'm completely dependent on my abusive husband. He recently got a new bank account and didn't put my name on it. Made sure my name wasn't on the house etc. When we need food I'll too go to the food bank and he actually likes that because the kids eat so much but I'm always asking for cash for other things.