You are so kind, what I want her to do is be careful with who she hangout with and don't take their flirting as some sort of validation and be happy with it, it gives them the wrong idea but I know she won't because we already talked about it before so I'm feeling like she is playing around and that is upsetting...if she is okay with it I will also start calling my girl friends sexy ass lol

I know I can't say there's anything between them but like you said calling someone's gf that is a bit too much and the fact that she likes it is also sketchy to me...she can't control what others say but she can control her reaction and who she hangs out with, she had good male friends they respectful and honest but this one is just not a friend

Also I'm the one with the giant penis lol

It's not a costume, literally just a pumpkin printed shirt and some jeans, the thing is I've never heard anyone else apart from me call her that so I'm questioning if it's even alright to call someone's gf "sexy ass pumpkin" and you are right, only I can find out, I won't ask her tho because I will just be called insecure and I actually trust her but you know how we guys overthink even the lil things

I think it pretty obvious what I'm overthinking, if there's is anything going on between them