Leave him on read. Like a gentleman.

Because she clearly doesn't want to spend the night. I don't know one couple that given the chance wouldn't take it.

Edit. Also remember having been told to leave because she has to work and she can't sleep while you're there. Makes for a very rough 1 hour drive home.

Ask her to come over to your place. See how she reacts. Do it knowing she doesn't work the next day. If she refuses and just be direct and ask her what's going on.

Reading this I hardly see it really moving past the 2 hour booty calls. Yes relationships are work. If she's complaining about her "Boyfriend" coming over. Than just take it for what it is and just don't be as serious with her. By the sound of things. she's not a keeper IMO.

Go over when she doesn't have to work. See what she says. And see if she makes an excuse. TBH this seems a bit off.

So basically a 2 hour booty call ? This seems very odd. Could potentially be a red flag.

She's an adult. She should get her finances in check. You can't be a walking, Talking ATM. She should learn to balance her income.

It's never a one time thing. He's only sorry he got caught. Throw him with the trash and build yourself up. Anyone that disrespects you like that isn't worth your time. Let alone your love.

So you tried to hookup and got caught. This breakup was deserved.