> I understand his point, but to be completely honest, even with that amount of money, i strongly believe his mum will still ask him to support her other expenses.
She very likely will
> So I’m now thinking, is he going to start giving her half of his salary from now on? What about his savings? What about our future? Will his mum still continue to pressure my boyfriend even though she has 3 other kids?
All legitimate questions to ask him and it’s best to do so now. If he will always put his mother first it’s seems like that’s a dealbreaker for you (and many others). If you wait until you are married, buy a house, or even worse have kids things will be much more complicated to end.
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Reply to My boyfriend (22m) gave half of his salary to his mom who dislikes me (22f) by OkRepresentative8265
> I understand his point, but to be completely honest, even with that amount of money, i strongly believe his mum will still ask him to support her other expenses.
She very likely will
> So I’m now thinking, is he going to start giving her half of his salary from now on? What about his savings? What about our future? Will his mum still continue to pressure my boyfriend even though she has 3 other kids?
All legitimate questions to ask him and it’s best to do so now. If he will always put his mother first it’s seems like that’s a dealbreaker for you (and many others). If you wait until you are married, buy a house, or even worse have kids things will be much more complicated to end.