TehJohnny t1_iyd4et3 wrote

It's true, at least for me, I used to live for relationships because of how they made me feel, I never gave myself time to process separations and always had to find someone new asap to get that feeling back. It is pretty toxic, you put up with a lot of abuse just because the good times made you feel so good. I've sworn off relationships, I get lonely sometimes but I feel better overall emotionally. Maybe someday I'll meet someone, but it isn't my sole reason for living anymore.