I play a female in any game with character creation because I find it easier to make a satisfying female character instead of trying to make a male character but if it's a game where there's a premade male and female option I'll usually go male since it's more relatable for roleplay.

That's on par with any bethesda game, I'm sure you can gix most problems with a few mods just like bethesda, CDPR has a pretty solid modding community, idk that it's quite as big as bethesda games but still pretty good