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ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeeyjf1 wrote
Reply to comment by Ok-fifi-78 in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
I tried warning her again right now in a subtle way that if he wanted to be with her, he would do things different and her response was “you think I’m stupid? I know this isn’t my first rodeo (jokes) and claims that she doesn’t want anything with him other than fun sex
ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeexwk8 wrote
Reply to comment by Ok-fifi-78 in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
I just confronted him. He denied everything and said I don’t need a crazy jealous gf. And he blocked me. I’m sure he’s gonna go running to my best friend now because he’s lonely and just wants to fuck around
ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeexi63 wrote
Reply to comment by ionlyreadtitle in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
I confronted him just now and he said I don’t need a gf that goes nuts and jealous just because I’m friendly with a girl. And he blocked me. I didn’t tell him that girl is my friend .. I just said I found out…… yeah….
ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeeo60y wrote
Reply to comment by ionlyreadtitle in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
I have feelings for him.. and it would kill me to leave him and then my best friend who is also my sister to have him and not being able to say shit!!!
ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeemt0v wrote
Reply to comment by ionlyreadtitle in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
My ideal situation would be for her to sense or see for herself taht he’s engaging with another woman and for her to just leave him… but I don’t know how to make her see that!!! Whenever she’s with him I try to blow up his phone for her to see that he’s texting a different girl but he hides his phone
ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeekv5g wrote
Reply to comment by ionlyreadtitle in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
We’re just seeing each other but he tells me that he’s blocked so many girls that tried approaching him because he’s with me! Unfortunately I can’t show her a picture of him because she’s already shown me a picture of him and told me his name and age.. she’s been more open about it than me. And I stupidly acted stupid.. because I was SO SHOCKED! I didn’t know what to say or do… I was thinking of sending her a message saying hey blah blah blah but then when she confronts him he’ll ask how this person got HER number knowing they’ve only hung out in her apartment and no one knows about their situationship. It’s so messy… lord
ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeejz0v wrote
Reply to comment by Princess-She-ra in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
Thing is, when I first found out.. I told her that I have a feeling he’s just using her and she said it’s okay I’m using him too I’ve never been in a relationship or any sexual relationship let me have fun I can block my feelings… and I couldn’t explain to her why I kept insisting on her leaving him. She got mad with me and told me she won’t tell me anything about him anymore …
ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jeejds6 wrote
Reply to comment by Ok-Prune-3952 in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
At first him and I were just friends, but then feelings developed. As for her, its just a fwb typa thing.. but I know for a fact that she lowkey likes him.
ThrowRA987654321779 OP t1_jef35dk wrote
Reply to comment by Ok-fifi-78 in My (27F) best friend (28F) and I are seeing the same guy (45M) how do I deal with the situation? by ThrowRA987654321779
No I didn’t. I confronted him that I found out he’s been messing with another girl and he called me crazy and blocked me