ThrowRABadBabysitter OP t1_jegy1yo wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:02 PM

Reply to comment by trishsf in I (29 F) have been with my husband (29 M) for 10+ years and he no longer associates with his friends. by ThrowRABadBabysitter

I have and he either brushes it off or says it’s fine.

ThrowRABadBabysitter OP t1_jegevpm wrote on March 31, 2023 at 8:45 PM

Reply to comment by Reasonable_Major1678 in I (29 F) have been with my husband (29 M) for 10+ years and he no longer associates with his friends. by ThrowRABadBabysitter

He doesn’t complain, he makes jokes saying he doesn’t have friends anymore, and I’ve even asked in our couples therapy sessions (we go for maintenance, not big issues) and he swears up and down he’s good.

ThrowRABadBabysitter OP t1_jegenm0 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 8:43 PM

Reply to comment by trishsf in I (29 F) have been with my husband (29 M) for 10+ years and he no longer associates with his friends. by ThrowRABadBabysitter

That’s true. I don’t know if it actually bothers him or not because he jokes that he “doesn’t have friends he has my friends”. But he’s more fluent in sarcasm than English so I can’t tell sometimes.