ThrowRAma12345
ThrowRAma12345 OP t1_jaelpx1 wrote
Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in [M35] I want to take dancing lessons and go to dance nights. My wife [F33] says that I either go with her or never go. Even if she decides to never go herself. by ThrowRAma12345
Advice on how to deal with the situation. Because we obviously do not want to end things. And I don’t want to hurt her. But I still think it’s an unfair ask.
ThrowRAma12345 OP t1_jael97k wrote
Reply to comment by DarKMuraudeR in [M35] I want to take dancing lessons and go to dance nights. My wife [F33] says that I either go with her or never go. Even if she decides to never go herself. by ThrowRAma12345
Of course she can and I’d love for her to go. The issue that caused the argument is that she says that if she decides not to go. Then I can’t go without her.
ThrowRAma12345 OP t1_jadqgmn wrote
Reply to comment by Pk2216 in [M35] I want to take dancing lessons and go to dance nights. My wife [F33] says that I either go with her or never go. Even if she decides to never go herself. by ThrowRAma12345
To be fair she usually doesn’t mind. This is the first time because she says she feels jealous that I’d be close to another lady while dancing.
ThrowRAma12345 OP t1_jadqbld wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in [M35] I want to take dancing lessons and go to dance nights. My wife [F33] says that I either go with her or never go. Even if she decides to never go herself. by ThrowRAma12345
I don’t have any such history because I’ve simply never done that. She said that she feels jealous that I’d be that close to another lady while dancing.
ThrowRAma12345 OP t1_jado12k wrote
Reply to comment by the-mirrors-truth in [M35] I want to take dancing lessons and go to dance nights. My wife [F33] says that I either go with her or never go. Even if she decides to never go herself. by ThrowRAma12345
She’s jealous that I could dance with another girl.
ThrowRAma12345 OP t1_jaf2krr wrote
Reply to comment by Pk2216 in [M35] I want to take dancing lessons and go to dance nights. My wife [F33] says that I either go with her or never go. Even if she decides to never go herself. by ThrowRAma12345
Thank you. That is actually useful advice