TimeSuck5000
TimeSuck5000 t1_iu98ohd wrote
Reply to comment by AttentionSpanZero in Whoever said its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved, clearly never dated a narcissist by [deleted]
Yes. They’re mad someone would dare suggest relationship failures are their fault, rather than our failures to meet up to the narcissist’s expectations. It’s not me, it’s you.
TimeSuck5000 t1_iu591io wrote
Reply to comment by AttentionSpanZero in Whoever said its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved, clearly never dated a narcissist by [deleted]
This is a hilarious joke so I’m not sure while you are getting downvoted.
TimeSuck5000 t1_iu4vep2 wrote
Reply to Whoever said its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved, clearly never dated a narcissist by [deleted]
I made peace with my (ex who’s a) narcissist. I learned how to spot one. I learned how to be vigilant about selfish traits in myself. I learned how a person should and should not be treated in a healthy relationship.
And, as far as I can tell, my narcissist learned nothing. She’s truly blind to the fact that it’s her own behavior which is holding her back the most, and that’s what I find most hurtful. I want her to move on and find someone else and be happy but unless she identifies her narcissistic behavior as the source of her continuous relationship failures, she’ll never learn to love unconditionally, which I find sad.
Narcissists make me sad. Deep down they’re so traumatized and insecure, that they can’t be genuine and let their true vulnerable selves through. Instead it’s all a front of their perfect false self that is 100% self focused and unable to meaningfully connect with other human beings.
TimeSuck5000 t1_iu4t9hj wrote
Reply to comment by 9Lives_ in Whoever said its better to have loved and lost than to never have loved, clearly never dated a narcissist by [deleted]
Narcissists typical don’t feel shame. That’s the thing. So my totally uninformed guess is: No, probably not.
TimeSuck5000 t1_jdhonus wrote
Reply to comment by TrustM3ImAnEngineer in [OC] In 2022, Mexico traded more with Texas than it did with all of Asia and 6x as much as it did with all of LatAm. by latinometrics
And there’s no insight into exports vs imports. Is the trade with Asia cheap goods that Mexico adds value to and sells to the US and Europe? Or is Asia a final destination for exports? Can’t tell.