Torrall

Torrall t1_iv6wxlc wrote

Jesus christ STOP making these people up, you have to stop seeing "rich" and immediately applying "smart". No one is steps ahead of everyone else doing these cartoonishly Machiavelli moves.

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Torrall t1_iutysfi wrote

No need to worry about this one. In the future if a headline bothers you read the article then look online for things from reputable sources that back it up. If you dont have time or the capacity for that, ask reddit. Maybe in the /r/ask subreddit but good enough. Youll maybe get some gruff for asking here but good on you for seeking answers instead of just stewing in your own anxiety alone.

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Torrall t1_is3nyrb wrote

Sounds like you need some help brother, too many people have been dumping stuff on you since you were too young, and not enough of it has been help. Dunno if you can afford therapy, but it would be good. If not, maybe a support group. Not saying what happened to you shouldn't cause you any pain but the way you describe it, it sounds intensely antagonistic directly towards you in a sense that usually isn't what's actually taking place.

I hope you take a break from dating as well as carrying others' problems and really really really focus on dealing with your own. Not so that you can help others carry theirs, not so you can go find a healthy relationship (though those tend to follow) but to put down some of the ones you've been holding on to yourself. You said yourself you're healing, and the way you talk about this shows you think more about emotions and their sources than most folk, but we all need a helping hand.

Anyways wrong subreddit fam.

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