I hope everything works out well with your aunt and with the rest of your family and they can come around.. your aunt is right, it was stupid but you definitely didn’t deserve to be left homeless over it.. so hopefully things can work out for you

Your aunt seems like an Incredibly level headed person, thankfully… Unless everyone is ok with it and moved on, it’s not a good idea to get involved with friends/family members ex’s.. especially only a couple of months after a relationship has ended, it just shows incredible disrespect for the person your related too, you owe your aunt.