I’ve known plenty of Christian moms who feel the same way and push these sorts of beliefs on their kids, specifically daughters. Truthfully, I think there’s more overlap in the conservative extremism of all religions than we often think

For sure. I hope OP is alright and that she can get to a more comfortable and safe living situation

Tbh, I’ve met people like this irl living in a conservative American town. I’d bet it’s a religious/Christian thing