>It is very sad because it means admitting to myself that my parents failed their task and I suffer the consequences.

Join the club. :(

It's not okay, but it's going to be alright.

hahah...

Do you actually think they way you kiss her is the same as the way she kisses her dad?

I'd say probably break up and do some maturing before getting into an adult relationship again.

This is sooooo illogical.

You've never met her. You don't know what she's like.

Anxiety is ruling your life here.

>What I'm afraid of is that something will happen that forces me to set boundaries with her

It sounds like you just have really low self-worth and inability to set boundaries. That's the problem here, not her.

I got parties a lot. There's usually many people I don't know very well or just don't like. That's called being an adult.

>I think there's a risk she'll be handsy with me, groping etc, which is something that she does at group parties,

It's impossible for you to assume and judge someone for that when you have never met them.

I think it's really shitty to refuse to meet someone because they post sexy pics online. It's not any of your business.

It sounds like you've decided she's going to sexually harass you or something the minute she meets you.

I feel you're being completely unreasonable with your boundaries but go for it if you think it's necessary.

>Does it? I was curious about the principle of it, I feel like I should choose who I spend my time with.

Absolutely.

If you refused to meet someone because they were a janitor or something, you'd be a huge unreasonable asshole.

There is no principle here, it needs context.