UnsightlyMeat

UnsightlyMeat t1_iujta4y wrote

It’s ok that you didn’t like it. It’s ok that he’s hurt.

Talk it out. This is honestly no big deal. Some gifts hit, others don’t.

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UnsightlyMeat t1_iujt23i wrote

Do you feel like he treats you like a fetish? Does he say racist, weird things?

Everyone has a type. If he’s not being weird about it then I think it’s fine.

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UnsightlyMeat t1_iujsrln wrote

No fuck this comment. It’s on him not to shame them? Really? You’re gonna sit here and say that shit then say he should keep it neutral? Not ruin a family? How can one scold them for this and keep things neutral?

Ruining a family? THEY did that. Keep what balanced? They are way out of line and saying disgusting stuff. She DESERVES to know the shit coming out of their mouths. Again, THEY did it. THEY invited him. THEY said this shit behind her back.

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UnsightlyMeat t1_iujs49u wrote

He’s being openly communicative with you. He’s laying out reasonable fears. This is good. Would you rather he lie? Keep quiet? There’s a lot of potential changes coming up in your lives. It’s only natural to have doubts, especially if he’s an anxious person.

Continue communicating. Talk it out. See a therapist together or solo if you guys wish.

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