Contrary to what so many people believe - it is indeed possible to stop sleeping with people, and still remain friends.
You did not F-Up. Do not push away Jake and Lena. Talk to them. Let them help you through this like the close friends that they are.
We men have a horrible habit of suffering alone through shit like this. We don’t have to. I know this really sucks for you right now, everything hurts, and pushing people away seems like the right idea. But you really don’t have to do that.
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Reply to TIFU by not telling my partner about my intimate life in the past by HereckMistwalker
Contrary to what so many people believe - it is indeed possible to stop sleeping with people, and still remain friends.
You did not F-Up. Do not push away Jake and Lena. Talk to them. Let them help you through this like the close friends that they are.
We men have a horrible habit of suffering alone through shit like this. We don’t have to. I know this really sucks for you right now, everything hurts, and pushing people away seems like the right idea. But you really don’t have to do that.