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WWGHIAFTC t1_jad976z wrote

100% yes, disconnect it.

The potential resentment from her having no money and being able to see yours is incredible. Not to mention the temptation of transfering..."He'll understand...we'll pay him back..."

If your mom takes offense...you need to have a calm, serious, adult conversation with her - not a reactionary one. If that conversation can't happen, there are much deeper issues than r/rpersonalfinance is qualified for -> r/relationships

Edit: Reread OP.. WAIT WHAT? She will transfer money without asking first??? No, no, no , no ,no. 100% unacceptable unless you already have an agreement in place for that.

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WWGHIAFTC t1_j04ld10 wrote

Ha, no - about humans being idiots and eventually becoming pets to some sort of overlord.

"Will there be another race to come along and take over for us?
Maybe Martians could do better than we've done..."

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