WeaselWeaz

WeaselWeaz t1_iyfdg1t wrote

You're allowed to find it gross, and not every guy likes it (or every woman hates it). That said, what are you looking for here? So you want to ask him to leave the room when his friends talk about it? That's an impractical boundary, and at that point it somes more like an issue with him as a person. Maybe you are not compatible.

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WeaselWeaz t1_iyfct5g wrote

Yes, it's a horrible idea. You're holding onto a version of your relationship that is dead. You're not making connections with your current or new friends because you're holding onto him. You're keeping yourself stuck in the past and putting an idealized version of him on a pedestal. You need to cut him off and move on. Consider therapy if that's an option.

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