If it's unclear where you two stand and if you still have feelings for him then you two are not "just friends."
I don't understand why he's your friend right now anyway. Don't you have enough friends that you can cross your EX off the list. It's not worth the stress. Make new friends.
Plus, you're probably making it a lot easier for him after your break up because you're still in his life and you're still sticking around. He doesn't have to choose between the two of you because you're both in his life. You have to cut him off so that real decisions can be made and you can both move on. How are you going to get over him if he's still in your life?
What's that rule for truly getting over someone? They have to be completely out of your life for twice as long as your relationship was.
Willis13j t1_iy27tdn wrote
Reply to TIFU by hanging out with my ex. by orio-s
If it's unclear where you two stand and if you still have feelings for him then you two are not "just friends."
I don't understand why he's your friend right now anyway. Don't you have enough friends that you can cross your EX off the list. It's not worth the stress. Make new friends.
Plus, you're probably making it a lot easier for him after your break up because you're still in his life and you're still sticking around. He doesn't have to choose between the two of you because you're both in his life. You have to cut him off so that real decisions can be made and you can both move on. How are you going to get over him if he's still in your life?
What's that rule for truly getting over someone? They have to be completely out of your life for twice as long as your relationship was.